Running Your Race…

My oldest daughter, Kori, has growing aspirations to be a track star one day.

My wife and I are behind her 100%…and it’s tiring. Anyone who has kids that are involved in sports (or any extra-curricular activity) can attest to how draining it can be. See if this sounds remotely familiar:

3-4 practices a week…meets/games just about every weekend…buying uniforms, shoes, sports equipment and apparel, etc…registration fees…routine road trips…

The list keeps going, but I’m not writing this to complain about any of that. I’m writing this because I’m extremely proud of her, and because she taught me something very valuable during her last meet.

About 3 weeks ago, we were at the AAU Regional qualifier in Savannah, Georgia. Kori ran the 400, 100, and 200 meter dashes. She ran the 400 that Friday evening, and…well…she struggled. More specifically, she came in dead last during her heat.

Needless to say, Babygirl wasn’t happy. I think her exact words were, “Man, that was HORRIBLE!!” My youngest daughter and I tried our best to make her feel better, but Kori is mostly self-motivated, so any outward motivation does no good unless it connects somehow with her inward drive.

So, on the way back to the hotel room, after giving her a moment to exhale, I asked her what her goal for the next day would be. Her reply surprised me a little bit: “Daddy, I want to beat my best times in the 100 and the 200”. I fully expected her to say that she’d be gunning for 1st, or that she was going to make some of those other girls eat her dust.


Kori, instead of focusing on getting the best of her competitors, chose to focus on getting the best of herself. The next day, she didn’t run the AAU race…she ran her race. And, for the most part, she accomplished her goal; she beat her previous 100m time, and came within less than a second of beating her last 200m time.

This wouldn’t really be considered a win by our society’s standards. As far as we’re concerned, winning is measured solely by whether or not you come in first in whatever you do. Nobody remembers who comes in second, right?

But is this how God views winning?


I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all – Ecclesiastes 9:11

I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith – 1 Timothy 4:7

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us – Hebrews 12:1

To put it simply, we don’t win God’s race by coming in “first”; we win the race by running at the pace that He establishes for each of us individually. We don’t have to be the first ones to cross the finish line…

…we just have to cross it..



  1. I enjoyed reminiscing with you reading your article. Although my own kids are all grown, my grandchildren put us through similar regimens. In running-my-race for over 40+ years as a pastor & counselor I’ve discovered that it isn’t the destination (the finish) that is always important, but to enjoy the journey & glean from the little lessons along the way that please the Lord & make this life worth the living.To have obviously instilled such a strong self-esteem in your daughter should bless you immensely! Of course even finishing as merely a ‘doorman’ in the house of God is wonderful. After-all, the least shall be 1st! May the Lord continue His good work in & through You.

    1. God bless you, man of God! Thank you for those kind and encouraging words. Indeed, to be a doorman in the court of the King of kings would be enough for me!

  2. Powerful message son. Thanks for reminded us what’s important. Sometimes, we get so caught up in winning, we forget that we’ve already won through Christ Jesus and all we have to do to obtain the prize is finish the race.

  3. What an awesome post!!! Since I haven’t been bless to have kids; however, this message can apply to me and many others. It’s not important who is ahead of me or behind me. The important thing is to stay in the race…all our journeys are different that means our races are different. The key is to keep your Focus. This have help me just because I haven’t cross the finished line like the rest. I will never give up!!! Keep up the good work!!! Son…..

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